Aspiring beauty artist practicing lash techniques, starting her career journey.

The Highs, The Lows & Everything In Between

All part of the process, right?

Let’s be real for a sec—growth doesn’t happen overnight. I’ve been in this industry long enough to know that every polished brow, every flawless lash set, every confident beauty boss you see? There’s a whole lot of hustle, self-doubt, and lessons behind it.

So today, I wanna get a little personal and share my own journey—the highs, the lows, and the lessons that got me here. Because if you’re out here grinding, feeling stuck, or questioning yourself... I promise, I’ve been there too.

The Beginning: Big Dreams, No Clear Plan

When I started in beauty, I had nothing but passion and a pair of tweezers. No roadmap, no mentor, just vibes and a dream. I was 17, broke, and clueless, trying to figure out if I even had what it took to make it in this industry.

I remember watching others succeed while I struggled, thinking, "Why is this so hard for me?" But deep down, I knew I wanted MORE. More confidence. More freedom. More control over my future. So I kept pushing—learning, practicing, failing, and getting back up.

And let me tell you... this industry will test you.

From struggling beginner to beauty boss—every pro starts somewhere!

The Struggles: The Part No One Talks About

Success? It wasn’t instant. It took years of:

  • Messing up lash sets.
  • Dealing with difficult clients.
  • Feeling like an imposter.
  • Wondering if I should just quit.

There were days I felt like I wasn’t cut out for this. Days I questioned EVERYTHING. But looking back, every challenge taught me something that made me better.

  • Mistakes? They’re lessons in disguise. Every “bad” set of lashes was a step closer to perfection.
  • Patience is your best friend. Skill takes time. Confidence takes experience.
  • It’s not just about talent—it’s about business. You can be the best in your craft, but if you don’t know how to market yourself? You’re playing small.

The Breakthrough: Owning My Power

Fast forward to today...

I’ve trained 300+ students, built a brand I’m proud of, and even seen my work on TV (still surreal!). But the best part? Helping other beauty pros level up their skills and confidence. Watching my students go from “Can I really do this?” to thriving business owners is the most fulfilling thing ever.

And you know what I realized? None of this would’ve happened if I gave up.

Proof that growth is real—this is what years of practice, passion, and persistence look like!

My Advice? Bet on Yourself. Every. Single. Day.

If you take ONE thing from this, let it be this: KEEP GOING.

You don’t need to have it all figured out right now. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be consistent. The beauty industry rewards the ones who refuse to quit.

So if you’re in that phase where you’re doubting yourself, thinking you’re not good enough? You ARE. Your success is waiting on the other side of perseverance.

Let’s Talk – What’s Your Story?

I wanna hear about YOUR beauty journey! Send me a DM on Instagram (@bypriscillamartin) and tell me: What’s one lesson you’ve learned so far? Let’s uplift each other. 💕

With love,
Priscilla Martin

P.S. If you need some business guidance, grab my free ebook here!

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